shyness

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Shy Guys Make Good Boyfriends Too!

Introduction

You look up from your book at the coffee shop and become paralyzed with nervous anticipation as you see the hot guy you've been smitten with from afar sit down at the table across the room. He's alone today and what a great opportunity it would be to finally approach him and introduce yourself. But the anxiety is mounting as you visualize yourself doing this and you bury yourself back in your book. You feel your face burning as you berate yourself for not having the guts to make yourself known. "He'd never be interested in me!" "I'd just die if he rejected me!" "And what if he did show some interest? What would I say? He'd think I'm a complete idiot and loser the second I'd open my mouth!" These thoughts swirl through your mind as you look up to find another guy has swooped in for the kill and has been invited to sit at the table with the object of your desire. Another missed opportunity!

If you're a shy guy, and don't want to be, dating can be a frustrating and daunting experience. When you're out and about, it looks so easy for other guys to approach and cozy up to other men. Or if you do have advances made toward you, you just want to kick yourself when you freeze up and don't know what to say and feel like you've made a bad impression and scare him off.

This article will shed some light on the symptoms and psychology behind shyness and offer some suggestions for breaking free of its chains that hold you back from experiencing a satisfying social and dating life.

What It's Like For The Shy Guy

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