Finding Your Voice: Phone Sex Lessons

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Olga Wolstenholme's picture

 

pc-1043I was in a long distance relationship not too long ago and when you don’t live in the same city as your lover you tend to spend a lot of time on the phone. I mostly get annoyed talking on the phone too long, but when you crave someone’s presence and he’s not around you get what you can, and frankly talking on the phone with him was always nice. I never really got annoyed with it, even when we had nothing to say, it was nice to just feel his presence on the other side of the line. 

At the beginning of a relationship, you never get enough of the other person. All you want to do is touch each other all the time, but distance in this case was a pretty big obstacle and we spend a lot of time moaning and sighing into each other’s ears and I never got sick of it. 

I’ve mentioned this in another blog post, but let me reiterate, when I was younger, I had a hard time expressing myself sexually. I’ve always been a pretty sexual person, but there were something I was incredibly self-conscious about and one of those things was the way I sounded. I probably heard some jerk guys at school make fun of the way some girl moaned or something like that. It’s not exactly a rare sentiment either. It’s been the joke of many a sitcom and I suppose that fear of being ridiculed stayed with me, because it wasn’t until I started having phone sex that I really started to love and appreciate the art of moaning. 

Sound is a huge part of sexual arousal. Try watching porn with the sound off, it’s just not the same. One of the good things about this long distance relationship was that I really discovered my voice. There was something incredibly powerful and arousing about turning someone on with the sound of my voice, moans and groans. It got really addictive. Some of my most powerful orgasms were in those phone sex sessions. It seems to me, that a lot of people have similar inhibitions while in the presence of another person, but there is nothing quite as freeing as being able to express yourself in that way with your lover. I say, down with inhibitions. Let your voice be heard, baby. 

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