Lady Porn Day

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Lady Porn Day

February 22nd is officially Lady Porn Day, a day about exploring porn and masturbation. Because It’s tough trying to explore porn as a girl. There just isn’t much lady-friendly stag.

At it’s heart, this is about celebrating pornography and masturbation

Girls aren’t encouraged to talk to each other about porn– the same way we aren’t encouraged to talk to each other about masturbation. In girl-world, too often we expect our first orgasm to come from a partner. Then we expect our Sex-and-The-City approved hitachi-orgasms to come from, well, our closed eyes. But porn is just another tool for your sexual growth. And according to statistics more women are watching porn than ever, growing stronger in our silence apparently.

Rabbit Write is curating Lady Porn Day as a blogosphere wide project. I’ll be writing about lady porn the entire week of the 21st-26th. So join in (at any point) to share your porn stories, insights or favorite porn links.

At it’s heart, this is about celebrating pornography and masturbation. It is an opportunity for ladies of all genders (or however you identify) to open up a dialog: What is feminist porn? What is your history with porn? What do you find hot?

And ultimately it’s a dare to share your hot links. Because the more we can openly talk about porn and what we like, the more likely it is that porn for women will continue being made. And really guys have been sharing and recommending porn for ages! So help a sister out.

I dare you to start the conversation, ask your friends: “hey what do you think about porn–and what sites can you recommend?” The point is to get women across the globe talking and thinking about porn and masturbation in a healthy and fruitful way.

Join me all week on twitter under #ladypornday where we will be discussing porn as well as sharing our hot finds!

Lady Porn Day Stars
Bloggers I personally invited to be a part of this project

  • Our Favorite Porn for Lady Porn Day by Dodson and Ross
    Betty Dodson is a living legend who brought female masturbation to the forefront when NO ONE was talking about it. Carlin Ross is a one woman show herself, the sex positive entrepreneur started with a background in law then set the internet aflame as a sexpert. Through the two’s frank discourse about sexual pleasure, they have helped countless people enjoy intimate relationships, discover their sexuality, and understand their bodies–fixing the world, one orgasm at a time! Dodson and Ross is an incredibly detailed and dynamic reference that includes tactful and compassionate answers to almost any question about sex or the body you can ask!
  • Big Girls Don’t Bang by Kelly Diels
    Kelly’s Blog: Cleavage, will teach you how to live passionately and fully. She writes eloquently about sex, money and life direction with soul and a sense of humour. Her blog is real. The kind that can make you cry and feel at home, she writes with such honesty AND does it all dancing in glittery red shoes–entertaining the reader at every step of the way. Mark her as a must-read.
  • Lady Porn Day! by The Beautiful Kind
    Kendra Holliday has created a venue where people of all orientations, interests, and histories can ask questions, receive advice, and communicate about sex and relationships–a truly sex-positive community. Kendra is a beautiful writer with an even more beautiful heart and through her work she hopes love and banishes shame. Her website is quickly becoming the go-to-source for sex on the Internet.
  • Lady Porn Day: Pre-Game Commentary by Miss Maggie Mayhem
    Miss Maggie Mayhem is one of the most outspoken supporters of porn (in all its forms) and has used her career as a porn star and performer to advocate for social and sexual equality between the sheets and otherwise. This wickedly pro-porn champion of social justice is truly the thinking woman’s pin-up girl and proves once and for all that smart IS hot.
  • Ladies, Let’s Talk About Porn by Mom in Real Life
    A blog that is ultimately a study in contradictions, Rachel gives us raw insight into the joys, humiliations, and perils of motherhood. She proves that women can have babies without utterly destroying their sex life and that mindless consumption of Spongebob reruns is not necessarily part and parcel of mommy-hood. If you’re looking for a mommy blogger who doesn’t suck, you need to look no farther.
  • Jilling Off by Ev’Yan
    Ev’Yan Nasman’s blog is for the bold at heart. And Ev’Yan’s heart shows through her in her writing, at once strong in self while staying vulnerable. She is a gorgeous writer and…a gorgeous lady. She is smart, savvy, stylish and knows how to wield a sentence. I am always impressed at the entire worlds Ev’Yan builds inside 500-word blog posts. Ev’Yan is thoughtful and fearless when it comes to sex and relationships and insight offers a lot we can all learn from.
  • Lady Porn Day: Observations by Alle Malice
    Alle is truly a larger-than-life persona. Her blog provides hilarious advice aimed at navigating life and relationships, both online and in the real world, an offers insight into her struggles with growing up and becoming who she is meant to be, something we can all learn from. Her excellent prose, amusing anecdotes, and Star Trek fandom make Alle someone everyone should be friends with.
  • Lady Porn Day: Discussion by The Demoiselles
    Jennifer Nichole and Lindsay are writers and a world-changers. The two champion body-love and explore accessible fashion for all shapes and sizes. Lindsay is a fearless fashion adventuress and Jennifer promotes awareness about the clothing we use and consume in an effort to encourage people to make choices that are truly in life with their beliefs. These girls are changing the way we think about fashion and clothes and our bodies, and doing something truly unique in the process.
  • Lady Porn Day is Feb 22nd by Jiz Lee
    This genderqueer pornstar is changing the game of porn and at the same time uses their involvement in sex work as a window to social activism. Along with championing equal gender agency in pornography, Jiz works to start conversations about traditional gender in a way that challenges conventional thinking and creates space for those who do not fit the binary mold. Plus Jiz is a stone cold fox. Consider Jiz Lee your new porn crush. Or mine.
  • On Trying to Make My Own Porn by Tiara the Merch Girl
    This woman is an entertainer in every aspect of the word. Defined by her unique creative flair, her projects are focused on bringing her story to the world to help women of all types, everywhere. Her positive outlook, sex-positivity, and introspection are an inspiration to all, and we wish her luck in achieving her goal of spreading her message to San Fran!

Jilling Off Hall of Fame
The best lady-approved porn we can find. These were submitted through #ladypornday if you think you’ve got a link to rival these, share it!

Allies and Press
Thanks for everyone’s support and contributions.

  • Make Love Not Porn
    One of the coolest things Cindy has done is put together the awesome website Make Love, Not Porn, which compares “real life” to “porn life” by contrasting what people see in most porn with what real people want to experience in the bedroom. While her website serves to inspire healthy conversations about sexual preferences, the fact that she also explores the way porn has influenced our human behavior though technology is pretty interesting, too.
  • Violet Blue
    Where do you even begin? Violet is perhaps the most widely known and respected sex writer in mainstream America and even Oprah loves her! Beyond being an expert on sex and technology, a prolific author, and a great resource for information about the how-to of sex, this woman practically invented the term sex journalism and has really paved the way for the rest of us.
  • Already Pretty
  • Savage Lovecast Listen to hear Rabbit on March 1st
  • Sex Blog Announces Lady Porn Day covered on XBIZ
  • It’s Ladyporn Day! by Charlie Glickman at Good Vibrations
  • Ladyporn Day, A Celebration of Porn for Women at Laughing Squid
  • Lady Porn Day on Crash Series Blog!

Banners
The fantastic official Lady Porn Day banners. All images found via Tumblr.

 

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