Transgender Day of Remembrance
November 20, 2010
I really don't look forward to this day at all.
I dread the emotional impact of realizing the toll in human lives that sexism and misogyny take out as measured in human lives.
I don't want to think about people being killed because of their identity.
I cannot stand thinking about the lies, gloating, pride, vanity, bullying, cruelty and inhumanity behind each death blow.
I am angered by the willingess of juries and judges to allow murderers to go free because of "trans panic" or some other abominable story about why killing someone is acceptable because of the murderers ignorant, hate-filled judgments.
I feel helpless against the millions of deaf ears and thoughtless insults that it takes to bring about the change in law, religion, culture and family that is needed for human beings to be accepted as the gender they know themselves to be.
But, I am alive and I have the chance to help end all of this that I abhor and dread. So, I do not forget and I do not remain silent, because silence is murder.
So, I remember and I speak out and I ask that you do the same.