Why don't women like seeing men together?
I mean, I LOVE seeing guys together, but I have to admit that it wasn't always that way and I have a few thoughts on this but it seems there are 3 main reasons women don't like seeing men together:
1. They just don't, they've seen it and know it's not their thing and that's fine. Some people like chocolate covered banana's, some don't, it's just the way it is! Mmmm, chocolate...
2. We're not exposed to it so for the most part we don't know if we like it or not, and since it's not generally seen as acceptable, there are less opportunities to witness it.
3. We've somehow been taught that it's disgusting or unnatural, and not something we should be subjected to.
Now if women fall into the first category, no problem, each to their own and power to them if they know what they do and don't like, but at least they have experienced it to have an opinion.
I was in the second category since it was something I'd never seen; it was not promoted as a hot thing to witness and subsequently I wasn't sure how I would go if I saw it. When I finally did see it, my body reacted before my brain could process what was going on, and it was a very positive reaction that got more intense... my conclusion? I must have liked it. And then I think I just about fell over the first time I saw Mr Wonderful kiss a guy - I just went all weak at the knees!
I think there are a great many women who are in the same category; I come across heaps who say they just aren't sure and they've never seen it. I've also met other women that like seeing guys together as long as it isn't their man and then the opposite too. If it was more socially acceptable I think more women would find it as much of a turn on as I do... It also means some women will know it's not a turn on for them but meh, I'd rather know :)
Then you have the third category which can be a hard one to get out of. Firstly, I disagree that anything should be taught as "wrong" unless it's hurting someone else or being done to someone who is either too young, or for whatever reason, unaware of what is being done to them... I'm sure there are other things I might consider wrong but that about covers it, men playing together certainly isn't one of them and it's a real shame that people are learning otherwise.
This kind of thinking is what causes guys to keep their bi-ness to themselves; some go out and play up on their wives to fulfill their needs, often because their wives have reacted negatively to the suggestion or made comments to suggest that's the case. Some never tell a soul and are never truly happy, some even become depressed because they can't do anything about it and how fair is that? I would never want my husband to only be part of who he is... I love him enough to want to see him shine!
If I could wave a magic wand, everyone would accept people for who they are, sexuality and all. Then everyone could have the courage to be who they are, be free from the guilt and shame around their sexuality and fully love the person in their lives... Oh, then more of us girls who like seeing guys together could get together and enjoy the stimulating sensations we get from watching super hot man nakedness with other man nakedness... Popcorn anyone? Bring your own camera :P
It's time for the women who don't know how hot this is to find out if they like it or not! Surely there are more women out there like me... I'm not that strange! Am I? lol
...And that's just what I think :o)
(Taken from Chantelle's Diary - http://www.chantelleaustin.com)